Wednesday, August 15, 2007

August 15, 2007 - This is me.

I am 36 years old and a work in progress, but I've got a pretty good handle on who I am.

I speak with honesty and frankness, sometimes to someone else's consternation. I shoot from the hip and have no censors; you'll know exactly where I stand. I do try to phrase things delicately when facing a sensitive issue, but for the most part you'll get me unfiltered.

I've wined and dined in finer places, but am more comfortable with an ice cold beer in my hand and my fingers greased from beer food. I'm loud and happy when I'm intoxicated, and am never belligerent. I would much rather avoid confrontation than to launch an all-out war, but am not afraid if the latter is necessary and called for. I speak softly and respectfully, and I see no need to hurl expletives, especially with people I love (except when they're being total and complete jackasses).

I'm fiercely loyal to my loved ones, and would put them first over any business associate. My family comes first before all else, excepting God. I'm not above hearing juicy gossip, but I won't ever spread it around as I wouldn't want the same done to and about me.

When someone wrongs me, and I see that person in a public setting, you can bet that I will ignore rather than greet. If you don't like me, then leave me the hell alone. Chances are I don't like you either.

I abhor unprofessional behavior and any violation of this business's spoken and unspoken ethics. No one has the right to behave like a diva. I demand excellence from everyone I work with, but want everyone to have a good time too. I'm a great partner, and will never steal a scene from someone else, as I'd rather make him or her look good. Although I'm great fun to work with, I do my job with the utmost seriousness. I will get things done. I take pride in my work and strive for nothing short of perfection with each attempt.

This is me.

10 comments:

Jojo Terencio said...

very well said, lea :) thanks for another glimpse of your thought and personality. bravo!

Marvin Querido said...

You are an inspiration to me... and to many others.

conrad panganiban said...

I absolutely love your honesty, passion, and humility. Thank you for being you and sharing all of your trials and tribulations. As was said, and can never be enough of, YOU are an inspiration. Take care and best wishes in this new chapter in your life :)

Chinky Fuentes said...

Aside from your talent, this is one of the reasons why I admire you, Lea. As a fan, I am not looking for a docile personality, but honesty and lots and lots of talents. And of course, grit and passion. There are a lot of performers out there who have less talent but more diva-like attitude.

I am not from showbiz but I imagine you need all that you said to survive and come out shining.

Lea Angela Singzon said...

yup i totally get you :) I once saw a bumper sticker that said " Im not anti-social, I just dont Like you!!!" I told my husband I want to have a shirt done with those exact words hehehe

Agnes Fernandez said...

I feel the same way, but it is hard living like that especially if the people around you is not as serious or as professional as you. I admire you for being like this.

Michael and Julie :) said...

"but am more comfortable with an ice cold beer in my hand and my fingers greased from beer food" ...or crabs! =)

You're also the most down-to-earth person we know. Mike and I always say that about you...

Lourdes Magdasoc said...

Alam mo bang super mega to the maximum level na favorite, idol at inspiration kita...sana makita kita at makaduet...im sure....its a dream come true...love you very much................

Ronald Manaron said...

This attitude is one of the reasons why you have lasted so long in the business. I apologize if we have tried to elevate you to the level of a saint, thus creating a lot of unrealistic expectations on you - after all, you are human. But, having said that, I believe God has blessed you not only with great talent but also a great character.

Cg' Tarte said...

Got it! :)